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    My boyfriend shows way too much PDA, help?

    Let me start off with, I LOVE my boyfriend and I appreciate that he has such strong feelings for me, because I know usually the problem with guys is that they don't show ENOUGH emotion. Unfortunately, he's just taking it way too far
    When we're in public, I don't mind a couple kisses, hugs, or just him holding me, but right now, we literally probably kiss an average of once a minute at the worst, once every two minutes usually.
    I feel bad for the people around us because I can tell it makes them uncomfortable, and I don't want to make his friends feel weird :/

    Any suggestions on what I should say to him would be great! I love him and I don't want to hurt him, so please be considerate of how he'll react

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    I would try making a joke about too much PDA or possibly saying you don't want to make your/his friends uncomfortable. I mean no one likes couples who are all over each other all the time. If that doesn't work I would more directly discuss it with him and be sure to let him know how much you love that he holds your hand and stuff but the kissing is just too much, i.e. focus on the positive more than the negative. My boyfriend was really bad with this, and I think it's almost a possessive thing, but anyways.

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    Tell him to calm down

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    wow he's horny. forward your description to him. it's perfect.

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    Talk to him about it and tell him that you're totally cool with him doing stuff in private, but not in public.

    If he loves you, he will listen to you and not take it as an insult. If he freaks out about it though, he may not be boyfriend material :/ after all, nobody likes a showoff.

    Hope that helps.

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    Just be straight up, smile, and tell him "let's save the intimacy for in-private" or that you prefer less PDA, and lots of private "DA"...if you two can't talk about stuff, ya don't have much of a relationship...

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    make him earn his kisses =]

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    I definitely agree with the first one. Make him "earn" his kisses, that'll limit him to kissing and PDA ing with you so much. If he keeps doing it though you should tell him that you want him to chill just a little midear.

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    Tell him sweetly like this: "Babe, I really love your kisses & hugs, but I feel a little uncomfortable when you go overboard because I feel like it also makes every1 around us uncomfortable. Please dont take this the wrong way because I truly & honestly care for you"

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    I HATE those kind of boyfriends, after a while, i dump them, they'll never change, its like they need a mommy


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