I really encourage you to take the time to romance he again, like you did before you were married. It is really hard with kids for a mom to "get in the mood" Instead meeting another woman at some hotel, why not take your wife to one? From experience I can tell you it works. If you take the effort and trouble to get a sitter for the kids and clear your schedule (and hers) to surprise her with a night out at a hotel, she will love it. Start with a nice dinner out and then a romantic movie in the room. Room service for breakfas and you guys will not want to leave. For all the money and trouble to have an affair or a divorce--the cost of doing this once a month is well worth it.Also see the link below. A fantastic book titled : His Needs, Her Needs will help, too.Remember, for a woman it is about the romance, the gentleness.
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