i went to a consuler yesterday i have been going there for the last 3 weeks for some problems i was having i rather not discuss. anyway i told her what happened the day before and i told her that my step dad wouldn't let me go to a friends house ( because of a recent problem) but my bio mom said it was ok. but since my step dad said no i decided not to. then the consuler says to me, " if your mom says yes to something you can do it because she is your biological mother," " Step dads have no right to control you!!" "he is not your real father he can't decide things for you" do you believe all this? what is your thoughts on what she says?