Should I reply or IGNORE his text?

**>PEACE<** · 03-31-2008, 08:06 AM

Today I broke it off with this guy that I've known for 5 years and JUST recently starting having sex with. He said, he didn't know what he wanted as far as a relationship and made it clear that I wasn't his woman and he wasn't my man. He also has a 7 mon. old child, with whom he still has sex with his babymama. Well, like I said---I text him---basically saying I deserved more than hard d$ck and bubble gum and that I wasn't going to SHARE him with anybody. He responded very nonchalantly and said that we could stop this then and it was good while it lasted. I responded with, "It was ok. Holla" and almost 2 hours later he sends me a text saying "Just ok?...lol"---Should I respond with something smart a$$ or just leave him hanging. I mean, of course it wasn't JUST ok. But I didn't want him thinking he got the best of me.Elizabeth: The energy it took you to OPEN my question, CLICK ANSWER then RESPOND---you should have atleast had something constructive to say. You aren't the Yahoo Master. I'll post where I please. -HOLLA

**<<lover>>** · 03-31-2008, 08:07 AM

You should have been ignoring him from the time he got another girl pregnant. I suggest you start now

**<lt‾`v‾tl>** · 03-31-2008, 08:09 AM

You need to not reply in any way. You need to stay out of his life and find someone with no minor children or other baggage.

**<322** · 03-31-2008, 08:10 AM

let it go... do NOTeven respond further... it is so easy to get back at someone... but it is better by not playing the ping pong game of retaliation

**<3nikksbabehgirl<3** · 03-31-2008, 08:12 AM

If you respond, he's going to feel compelled to respond and you guys will be going back and forth. Ignore the message. Leave him hanging wondering what are you thinking.Kudos to you for knowing when to end a bad situation.

**<3ILUVU<3** · 03-31-2008, 08:13 AM

Ok this is marriage and divorce NOT general relationship.! Secondly stop being so childish if you are going to text someone just pick up the phone and call them. Third stop talking to this jerk to begin with and finaly just simply GROW UP !!!!!!

**<3PIXIEDUST<3** · 03-31-2008, 08:15 AM

Leave it

**<3SAMMYKEYES<3** · 03-31-2008, 08:16 AM

Leave him hanging! He isn't worth your time.

**<ItSmE>** · 03-31-2008, 08:18 AM

Move on with your life. He was just using you. He's not worth the time.

**<ItSmE>** · 03-31-2008, 08:19 AM

LEAVE HIM WONDERING

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