...decide whether I will leave him or not.? His family is very close... but share bad habits equally. Everyone has their faults and every family is disfunctional but his aunts and uncles smoke weed together on christmas. There is drug abuse, alchohol use, etc. At one point it even came into my home with violence. Should this affect the future of our relationship?? Or should it be overlooked and accepted. Yes and nos... your answers willhelp me decide if I will lave him in the next 30 minutes