well i guess im still in this relationship with this 49yrs old but he too busy for me dont have time for me i want wait for him but i dont know what i want to at times he sweet but he be on call for 24 hrs. i too much dont call him at times he busy or doing something if he want to talk to me he know how to call me as well 2 days ago i left it on his voicemail that i want to spend time with him nextwk on my birthday going on a month we havent spend time together on time i seen him when i need some money rather than that no i dont understand what type of relationship we supposed to be in sometime i think he find him someone else at the time i cant say that too much he dont hide nothing from me whatever i want to know good or bad he tell me also he going thru a divorce sometime i think soon the divorce is over he go find someone he want and marry them i guess i think like that we dont spend time together we been seein each other about 5mths let mr know what should i do make things better