...mental) attraction ...? I am trying to date, but guys who I am extremely physically and mentally attracted to are continually buzzing around. Of course, in a perfect world I'd meet a guy to date who I was as attracted to as the guys who aren't interested in dating. (This actually even happened to me once, but I think it was a one-shot deal.) BTW, I don't just mean guys who have good looks, but guys who I have good chemistry with, but are lacking on the committment/stability side. Here, in the real world, I'm going to have to work harder at ignoring the guys I desire the most to keep trying to form something with other men. Any tips?