He never talks to me until after!? I have a friend who's my ex. There's something weird I realized though. Ever since he broke up with me, every time he goes through a new break up with someone else, he starts giving me attention, visiting me, calling me, and talking to me almost all the time. Then when he gets in a relationship, he barely contacts me anymore. I've found out from his parents that I'm the only ex he still contacts and sees. Why does he give me so much attention after a break up then go straight to barely giving me any attention when he's with someone? And I'm the only one he does this to. Doesn't make sense.