Ive posted many questions about my situation before. Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I met him my first year of college (I am 2.5 hours away from home, he's only 20 min from his home). My freshmen year was fun, I made a lot of friends. The second year of college, I drifted away from my friends and hung out with only him. I think I got too dependent on him. He is still involved with his family and friends from high school, he tries to include me, but I always feel left out. In a sense, he's become my everything, and I think it's caused me to become a bad person towards him. I always had big dreams to move and travel the world, but now I feel like I couldn't do it without him. I graduate next year. I also could live at home this summer or at my college town. Part of me wants to live at my college town to be with him, the other part feels I should go home. He doesn't understand why I get dependent on him, he thinks it's stupid, and I'm too needy. I havent grown as much as I wish.At school he has his family, his high school buddies, a job, and me, whereas i only have school and him. I need some guidance because I don't want to waste my life. I don't even know who I am anymore without him, and we do love each other. I feel like if I lost him I'd have nothing at all. He's the closest person to me, and only main person in my everyday life. I don't want to ruin my last summer/ my senior year of college, how do I make the most of it? I have the opportunity to intern at my college town this summer too, but Im afraid if I stay at my college town I will become too dependent on him again and it will be too much for him to handle.I do have the opportunity to intern at my college town though.
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