I live far away from my boy friend and since I love him so much, I dont want to engage myself with another man but as a human being, I have feelings. Does it help to cool one down if I use gadgets like vibrators, do they real overhaul the intense desire a lady can have to the man she loves?

Please do help me if you have ever tried the gadgets. I havent used it but I know they are in the market. Should I tell my B/F that i am using them?

Again, if I become addicted, will it derail me from enjoying sex normally with my man when we shall be reunited. Thanks for your thoughts and help. Dakera.