I realize it's very long, but please read, i will appreciate it.
My dad gave up smoking and had not smoked for 8 years straight, and i was so proud.
A few days ago, my mum asked my dad if he ever got tempted to smoke, because all his friends do and the people he works to do, to which my dad replied, 'sometimes'.
My mum asked him again yesterday, "have you ever had a cigarette with them"? to which my dad replied yes, but only when he has a beer with his friend.
I was so upset yesterday about finding out that my dada started smoking again that i couldn't stop crying, i cried for about 4 hours straight.
To make matters worse it's my 16th birthday next week and all i wanted was my family happy and together. So i wrote my dad i letter saying 'Thanks for making my birthday the worst I've ever had in my whole life'. & i put it in the car for him to read.
My dada smoked for 20 years before and it look him 3 years to give up, he also promised me that he would never have a cigarette in his life again.
Now my mum's saying that she can't trust him anymore, and that he's already 'deceived' her about the smoking situation, and she's now saying 'she wonders what else his deceiving her about.
I don't know what to do, because now my dad was supposed to be home from work 4 hours ago and he hasn't called.
Supposably he's at his friends house, probably drinking and smoking.
I don't know what to do, because i don't think i can forgive and as far as i'm concerned, i never want to talk to him again.
But i know my dad and me talking to him isn't going to fix anything, he's stubborn and so am I, but now he's also a coward for not telling me about smoking again.
Your thoughts please.
lady just because you smoke, doesn't mean the whole world has to.
My dad has had health problems when it comes to him smoking and the only reason i ddin't want to add them to the question is because when i think about it i cry. you happy now
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