Why do I LOSE INTEREST in guys after i have SEX with them?

[Keena]

i don't know why, but usually after i have sex with someone i lose interest in them and i just feel like i don't want to see them as much any more or really think about them. This is even if it was the best sex ever i still feel the same way afterward.
I don't want to feel this way, i can't help it though.
Is there anything wrong with me?
Why is it that im a slut because im a female?!?!

i bet your answers would be completely different if i was a man. What a shame

[bob]

because you lost that excitement that you had at first. everythings all exciting the first time and after youve done it all, you lose interest

[ymmranmildrmgm]

Maybe you rushed it.

[izzunknown]

cause u dont love em..

[BOMSR]

it just means you got want you wanted and thats it

[Kendalkisses]

lol same with me but not anymore cuz i met my bf.

[Savage]

Same happens to me.
But i don't think im a man-slut.
Only pursue people who intrigue you without sex.
So when u do it, they will still be interesting.

[NikkiBay8]

Since when does having sex mean you're a slut?? Geez, people!

Maybe you are just in it for the chase. I can honestly say, when a guy starts to 'fall' for me or starts to be really, really nice, like he wants a relationship or something, I start to distance myself. Even if I really, really like the guy. It's like when he finally starts to like me a lot, too, I don't like it. My feeling usually passes, though.

Maybe you should try waiting until you know that you really like the guy. Maybe your emotions will get the better of you. I know it's hard (since us "sluts" like to have a little fun, lmao ) but just try and wait sex out.

[TREBOR]

As the old saying says,"The sample was ample."

[Wickedd]

Well you sound like one of those people who like the chase and after you get the prize your bored..so I suggest taking things slower, getting to know the guy more, liking him for who he is, and let sex wait. And after you've had sex and if you still feel uninterested try doing it again. (despite how you're uninterested.) See if that makes you feel any different.