Why do I LOSE INTEREST in guys after i have SEX with them?

[Jackenstein]

Could be you've lost the thrill of the chase. Sex is as intimate as you can get with anyone, kinda the end of the line, if you know what I mean.

Could also be that you're seeking a sense of self-validation... "Am I sexy enough that a guy will want to go all the way with me?" Sometimes women feel a sense of empowerment that they can use their sexuality to achieve certain outcomes on their own terms... problem is, sometimes we don't always know if our subconscious has a different agenda than what we consciously think we're after.

Your post-nookie emotions may be your subconscious/id telling you that you weren't going after emotional intimacy with this person, or that your motives might have been different than what you thought you wanted.

If deep down you're seeing their sexual attention trying to get a sense of self-worth, chances are you're just going to feel numb or even emptier or needier later on. It can be addictive. The only way to break that kind of cycle is to gain a sense of self-worth that's based on accomplishments, rather than on someone else's perception or approval.

Keep reflecting on this... you'll learn lots about yourself.

[~Shelz~]

nothing wrong with u, ur just a slut.

[Wmmm3m™]

maybe you just like the chase ne tryin to get with em, then once you got em you wanna chase another one. idk

[Lookintomyeyes]

usa playa. lol naw. cause hun some girls minds work a lot like guys, its not that there is anything wrong its just that you wanna have fun and your not ready to be in a relationship yet. Don't worry though, eventually a guy will come along and even after sex u won't be able to get him outta your mind.

[ashleyg]

Because you're a slut.

[cLumsy]

You probably just lose respect for them after.

[MyFistGoBoom]

Playa

[MreHappy™]

The only thing wrong with you is that you've never met me.
I'll make you forget all about those other guys.

[bobmalcomb]

Do they remind you of the sex and you feel guilty about it ?

Or is it you want fulfillment thru sex and you find it is hollow and does not quinch that emptyness in your heart ? Maybe God is the answer ?

Imagine doing nice things for others and being married

[SarahlJade]

There is nothing wrong with you it just mean that all you wanted then for is sex and then when you get you don't need them.That doesn't make you a bad person either you just need to find someone you really interested in first and then that way you'll feel less like you want to ignore them after.