Do you think my friend is gay?

[stefjien]

So I met this guy (he was a classmate) and after some time we developed a very strong relationship. His attitude sometimes makes me wonder if he is gay or not. He is not femminine or something...but he is very very caring. I mean on MSN he always wants to assure that I am ok and that I am fine. I respect him a lot (as a friend). He likes to talk about blue films and stuff..I mean when I tell him "I am downloading a movie" he asks "is it a blue film" Now tomorrow we're going together fishing...when I told him I was not going (as a joke) he was going to even cry. I dunno sometimes I wonder if he is gay or bi...what do you think?

[chris]

I think he is straight, but you on the other hand...i don't know

[gizzy98]

Not sure.... throw out hints, and see how he responds

[MarkT]

Maybe, but dont assume someone is just because of behavior. Some guys are just emotional. My brother is very emotional and caring and he has girlfriend thats in love with him.

[CartomartaBrandm]

Hes just in touch with his Feminine side

[kate]

just because he cares about you means he is gay?
Some peoople might love you. And might care about you, Without wanting to have sex with you.
Know?

[Ronnie]

yes sir you have a gay friend

[TheSource]

if someone cares about you they are gay?

[N3M0t]

Just because he's really caring doesnt mean there gay..
maybe they just care for there friends alot more than other people do..
thats when you know you have good friend..
someone who will be there for you..
maybe it has to do with his past..you never know...
but dont ask him unless you pick up signals...
and plus if he was gay i think he would of told you..
well if you guys were good enough friends..
but dont ask him yet..because that might really hurt his feelings if he wasnt..
maybe ask him about some girl questions..like mann have you ever dated a girl that blah blah blah..
idk talk about girls..and see how he reacts..
then if you think so then be like..
yo are you gay?

[amanda]

he just might be, but this isnt enough info to tell if he is or not, does he date girls? does he have alot of girlfriends? and he might even be a very emotional guy who knows, you should ask him so you know for sure, and you dont have to be wondering all the time!