Am I gay ?

[ujjff]

when ever im in the shower and other private places and think about stuff its usually guys im thinking about and then when i do think of girls its because im wondering if im gay and i don't get a erection. its really bothering me and i dont want to be gay.

[[tammmyt]]

Could be, but you can't just tell if you are by those stuff. Maybe you should try dating a girl.

[SarahRoxTheBox]

well it kind of depends on what you're thinking about the guys

[Lynn]

Maybe the thought of girls just makes you nervous? I used to be that way with guys and thought I was gay, but as I got older and more comfortable with my sexuality I realized I wasn't.

But if you do strongly feel that you are gay, don't deny it. It will only lead to an unhappy life.

[Yawanaya]

only if you want to be gay

[KatieZe]

If you are gay, then you're going to have to accept yourself.
Chances are, if you do feel this way, then you are gay. Our society has become a lot more accepting, be thankful for that.
In most cases, we don't know until we're older. So only time will tell.

I hope you work things out for yourself, and are happy with who you are as a person.

[shovesuckpopit]

Hmmm i guess the only way to find out is expirement? but i mean, you can just be bicurious, im the same way...just kinda curious i guess...except im a chick

[TheSexyaAwesomeGuy]

Yes you are very gay

[yummy_lemons16]

Maybe it's just a phase. I mean, everyone in their lives asks themselves if they're gay or not at least once. Even, if you are gay, what does it matter?

[blankrofl]

it all depends on what you think