How seriously should I take this rumour, AIDS & H.I.V?

[DonnaLe]

Not to be rude or anything but what I think is "silly" is that you don't have guys wear condomns. You are going to college and you don't know enough to protect yourself from STD"s?

What class did you miss?

[MikeC]

Wait, did you do it with him, "Y"?

If so you should get tested, never can be too safe.

[Carrieroxt]

Did you ever have sex with C or Y??

[MikeC]

Wait, did you do it with him, "Y"?

If so you should get tested, never can be too safe.

[littlemissy]

Point is if you have unprotected sex with him then you need to get tested. If it comes out negative then wait 6 months and get tested again just to be sure. It takes about 6 months to start affecting you. If you haven't slept with him and plan to use protection of course! If you have a choice not to (which you always do) the don't because you can never be too safe. Wish you the best.

[kate]

Better safe than sorry right? Besides, if you've never had and HIV test its a good idea to get one just to know. You don't have to wait until you think you might be at risk, its ok to just get tested to know. You should get tested for stds regularly anyway, its smart.

[MikeC]

Wait, did you do it with him, "Y"?

If so you should get tested, never can be too safe.

[roughneck707]

Look just dont do it. Dont do it.

[King_Radbadical_LXXXVIII]

Lol they both sound pretty immature to me, sounds like a typical "feud" over some minor crap that escalated...or maybe not so minor, either or, there is beef going on between them two. If someone really infected ALL of those women though, then they could get the death sentence for that in some states you know, so one girl might keep quiet but MULTIPLE women would DEFINITELY land "Y" in the slammer for infecting all of them with what is basically a viral death sentence.

I would say if you want a relationship with him, before sex make sure he has medical records. But don't make it "about him" or mention the rumor.

On the FIRST DATE...just MENTION that you "force all of your boyfriends to show me HIV results before any nookie"...and you should be alright.

[Sarah]

just be safe and not do it