Your bridge called. It misses you.
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Instead of all the things you say you have done, why not love him for who he is, tell him you love him. all the things you have done will only caused him to hate you, do you really want him to hate you? of course not, so try giving him your love, love is more powerful than anything you could ever do to him..
Accept him and love him regardless of who he's attracted to.
This is not the way you should handle a child. why not try talking? being their for him? helping him thru a tough hormonal confusional period in his teen years? this is absolutely not GOOD parenting and this is drastic. please read scriptures in proverbs where it tells u how to b a good parent.
this is definitely NOT what Jesus would have done in the situation nor would he or God approve.
SERIOUSLY I CANT BELIEVE I JUST READ THIS!!! I FEEL BAD FOR THE KID!!!
give him my email [email protected] so he can at least feel like he has SOMEBODY WHO IS TRYING TO CARE!!!
You should give him a deposit on his own apartment and financial support untill he has enough income to support himself.
Do not punish him. Let him know your feelings, but he does not need to be punished. It's his choice.
There's a lot of true stories where kids were punished by their parents for being homosexual and were yelled at constantly, and they comitted suicide.
Don't be stupid. Accept him the way he is, and he will come to the right decision.
By the way, being gay is NOT against God's will. It's not an abomination,contrary to popular belief.
http://gaychristian.net/
if you cannot accept your own child for who he is, then you sir, are an unfit parent, truly, if i were him i would have contacted child services a while ago.. you have to realize not everyone will have your same views+, INCLUDING YOUR OWN CHILDREN, he is older and will no longer make contact with you, he will reflect on what you have done.. and despise you.. leaving your relationship as father/son broken forever..
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