m ex-friend was tomboyish to some extent. not a full-on tomboy. but, she was not into makeup and liked to dress casually - a top, jeans and skechers, no heels etc and would act a little bit rough etc. she did have a boyfriend though she was not too serious about him and then they broke up. she seemed to be physically attracted to men as she always spoke about how cute some guys are.
but, she got so attached to me and then got insecure and jealous if i had to give time to other things and felt i was purposely avoiding her. she wanted me to always give my time to spending time with her and was too insecure. i also feel she did not want to me have a boyfriend as she felt that would make her less important. i got tired of her and i cut her out of my life. she was soooo hurt that she begged me to not cut her out.

is she a lesbian by any chance but she also does not know?