i don't know if my friend is a lesbian?

[zachkup4]

I know how you feel, and it will seem weird if you just try and ask her if she was joking, cause she might feel offened if she was joking. Try to bring it up casually, either that or she will probaly bring it up in a conversation.

[Katelyn]

today my BEST friend told me she was a les but i dont know if she was just joking. i know this doest seem that important but its kind of freaking me out.

[MatthewChinchin]

Lucky you. Ask her to perform heaps or oral work on you.

[SavannahZ]

I think she is telling the truth.
Dont treat it like anything "odd"
I know it is but she might get the feeling you have a problem with her and dont wanna hang with her..

You will know when the time comes to tell her

[babyZ]

weeeeel i mean if it really bothers you why dont you simply whatch what she dose. and if she tries hitting on you then say i dont go that way and i just wanna stay best friends if thats okay with you. me and my friends like theres 10 of us and 4 of them are lesbians but we all joke wit eachother and walk arm n arm sometimes but they dont ever hit on us straight gurls and boys n the group there bisexual too so it makes it a lil easier. my advice try and just ignore the fact and live on wit your friendship that shouldnt change your friendship at all... by the way im totally STRAIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Roxy]

if you're really her friend,you wouldn't care enough to go online and ask this question

[falloutgurl]

Just play it cool. There's nothing wrong with gay people. I have a lot of gay friends that I love dearly.
Don't freak out because maybe she was just kidding.

[I'mTaken<3]

ya that happened to me before too
and i was all freaking out
but i called and i was like are you for real right now?
and she kept saying ya no joke im a les
but then i was like okay sure
so then she was like haha im just kidding

so im not sure but she is probably messing with you
(hopefully )

[falloutgurl]

Just play it cool. There's nothing wrong with gay people. I have a lot of gay friends that I love dearly.
Don't freak out because maybe she was just kidding.

[hg]

She probably wasn't joking about being les. But why are you freaking out? She told you something very personal and a large part of herself. You should be glad she told you.