Im not interested in having sex. Actually, I'm against it. There's nothing

[jncohmygosh]

you are completely not weird or anything !
you are 16, everyone's probably "doing it"
but that doesn't mean you have to !
if a girlfriend you have that supposedly "likes" you a lot,
dumps you because you don't want to sleep with her,
then she probably doesn't like you.
the time will come when you're mature for it,
& you can always go as far as first base, and keep it there.
firstbase=kissing, makingout, hugging&touching, etc,etc.
trust me, don't even worry about it..
losing your virginity at something so young,
especially if you feel completely uncomfortable during the

whole thing, is something completely immature,
when everyone has the wrong perspective thinking
that it really is "mature"..
when it really isn't.
don't sweat about it, your completely right

[WholettheTrollsoutm]

No, I think it is awesome that you have morals. I don't think its strange that you don't find venereal diseases and unwanted pregnancy attractive. xox

[0OoeoO0]

Im the same...so are most of the decent people I know.

Its usually (though not always) the ones who have no plans in life that do it and ruin their life!

[Friend]

well, there isn't anything wrong with you... but there isn't anything at all wrong with having sex either as long as you're careful. pregnancies/stds can be avoided. just always have you and your partner tested, and have her use the pill and you use the condom. take that advice if anything changes.

good luck

[shy]

same here i feel weird sayin it but im actualy scared to have sex...

[SID]

There's nothing wrong with not being interested in having sex.
If your girlfriend dumps you because you don't want to, theres no point in wasting your time on her.

[AnthonyF]

First of all, you are SWEET! A flat out sweetie doggie. People would laugh at you where I'm from. You ever had sex? It's amazing. Life is all about having sex. You are young, you will see... Life is boring. Drink, Eat, Sleep, Fornicate. That's what life is. Some people wait for marriage for religious reasons which I can understand. But if it's not for religion then you are just a sweetie. You probly gay.

[kit]

Wowww guys like you exist??? That's pretty nice...I'm like that too, but I'm a girl. I never wanna do it. ><

[Liz]

good for u..it means ur not ready...your probably the type to wait til marriage

[dasefrettchen]

Don't let a girl change you. There aren't as many good girls out there as there used to be, but I was lucky enough to find one on the second try and we've been together just under 2 years and we're both virgins (I'm 19, she's 17). You can find a girl who is a virgin and has the same views as you and in the end it will be the best relationship possible. I can't imagine being with a girl who has been with another guy.. all I would think about the whole time is them being together, and at the same time I only want to share the experience of sex with one girl in my entire life. So don't worry you are not alone and there is nothing wrong with you!