if you do . you better not let her catch you. or you will be doing them for the rest of your life.
and if you think they are not clean. then stand there next to her and help wash them. when is the last time you two did anything togather anyhow ?
That depends. Are u asking this because she leaves stuff on them? If so then you should talk to her about it. I think if you do an "Inspection" that might irritate her. If this has been going on for a while then if she keeps passing you a dirty plate, hand it back. Does she eat on them if they're dirty? There's not a lot of detail but if you've already talked about it then yes you should. If not then you should go about a different way to let her know that she's leaving the dishes dirty.
That depends. Are u asking this because she leaves stuff on them? If so then you should talk to her about it. I think if you do an "Inspection" that might irritate her. If this has been going on for a while then if she keeps passing you a dirty plate, hand it back. Does she eat on them if they're dirty? There's not a lot of detail but if you've already talked about it then yes you should. If not then you should go about a different way to let her know that she's leaving the dishes dirty.