I was 17 when I gave birth to my son. I grew up a "bad kid" and did drugs and drank and was mentally unfit to care for my son. She called child services on me when I was living at my fathers when my son was a year old because my room was dirty and after that, he was in her care. She adopted him last year and I am now able to care for him unlike I was before. I got on SSI [her income was her husband's SSD], got a two bedroom house, I am in counseling and I have my license. This happened in Pennsylvania and I am now living in Michigan. I NEED to know if I can get him back because now that I am living a better life, I truly believe she is neglecting him and I don't want that for my son. If I cannot get him back, I would rather him be in a foster home even.