Here are the facts: he recently separated from his wife of ten years. I get along with him more than I have any other guy. he's said a few times "he's pretty hot" about male actors. he once cracked a joke about himself being gay which i didn't instigate. he has a male friend in another state that he visits. am i being way too paranoid? i don't want to fall for a gay man! on the other hand - he does follow sports, mainly hockey... and has pictures of females all over his myspace...drinks a lot of beer.... i have bad "gaydar" please help me!