addicted to it? I really dont mind my girlfriend looking at and doing what she wants. we have had a good realationship for 7 years shes always been a manga nerd and i have decided to take some interest in it so i can know what she likes better. Recently shes been into this stuff called yaoi which i guess is Boy Love i dont really understand it. i thought it was like gay porn but she says its not and that she just like to look at it. She claims it doesnt turn her on but im sceptical. Well its getting to the point where she is obbsessed with it. its really cutting into our time together and when we are together all she wants to do is force me to look at this stuff with her which i dont really enjoy. ive tried talkin to her and all but does anyone else think this is something i should be concerned with?