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What should I do when he calls?
There is this guy I like a lot and we've been communicating for 3 months. We met online and emailed for a month then met two months ago in person. We saw each other the first 3 weekends since we met in person. Then because he has no license right now and we live an hour away I have been waiting for him to come see me. Then went 3 1/2 weeks without seeing each other since our plans fell through. The first time the plans fell through was my fault, I wasn't feeling well and didn't call him in time like I was supposed to. He was going to come visit me, but since I didn't call in time it got too late for him to come. The other times were legitimate reasons too. After the 3rd weekend of not seeing each other I didn't even get a phone call and thought it was over for good. Then I got a mass email from him to all his address book saying he had lost his phone. So I emailed him my contact info. He called me that night and said he had wanted to see me that weekend, but lost his phone and could I come up to see him that night. I was tired and said it was tempting, but no. He asked if I could let him know when he could see me again and to email him the days I'm available, so I did. But then the next night I really wanted to see him so I called him and asked if I could come up to visit. He said yes. So that was 3 weeks ago. The weekend after I saw him he was going to come down Saturday and then the plans changed, so I thought he ditched me. The he tried to call me a couple times on Sunday to see if I could hang out but I missed his calls since I went to a water park with my friends. Then I never called him back till the following weekend. We talked for a while, he was busy doing something and asked if he could call me back in an hour. So he did and we talked more. He asked if I wanted to hang out sometime. I said yes, like I always do, and it would be nice to see him. He said he'd call me later in the week. I was emotional that week, so I emailed him some newsworthy info, which he replied to. Then called and text him on Friday to ask if he could hang out Sat or Sunday. He didn't get back to me till Saturday afternoon around 4pm and I missed his call, he left a message. I called him back an hour later and got his voice mail. He hasn't called me back yet and it's almost a week later! So my question is when or if he calls me again, what should I do? Should I answer it, or be mad and not answer it because he didn't call me back?
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