my middle brother is a nonacheiver and he and his manipulative
wife are using their kids as a tool to control my parents.

my parents have to walk on eggshells because if they dont jump
when my sister in law says jump or do or say anything to her
dislike she keeps the grandkids away.

she is after inheritance as she and my brother moved home to
position themselves as having the only children among three
brothers.

this leads to transferred aggression and it has got to stop.

what can they do as inheritance is the real prize .


they are blinded by the thought of not seeing the grandkids
and this is getting worse and worse as they are used as
babysitters on almost a daily basis.

what should we do???