i'm 16 and i want to be friends with benefits with my ex-boyfriend. he agreed and i did too. we don't want to date anymore, just fool around. we didn't have sex when we were dating but i really want to now. all we did was oral. i don't think ill regret it but still...its a big thing. i know im probably being an idiot but i really want it. what do you think? oh and also, are there places where i can get birth control without my parents knowing? planned parenthood i think?