My sister is amazing, wonderful, and probably the sweetest person I have ever known. I love her and so does everyone that meets her. But that is kind of the problem, I usually get pushed aside in one form or another. We share all the same friends, usually they would start out just being my friend but after meeting my sister they instantly fall for her charms, and I often feel like the 3rd wheel. Its not her fault though she just has is natural charisma. You could describe her to a warm summer's day, so I guess that makes me the cold winter's night. Oddly enough I don't feel jealous or even bitter, but I do feel belittled, ignored, and often times forgotten when she is around. I guess I feel even more confused because I love her so much and only want the best for her but at the same time I don't want to be standing in her shadow.