I have an ex-girlfriend who I want as a friend but she is making it so difficut. She gets angry and pissy even when I don't anything wrong. I'll be honest she was sort of controling but not in the bad way. The reason we broke up was we both had internal problems. We thought the other could answere but we ended up fighting over them and how they could be the others fault. Every little negative comment becomes fighting even when I'm just joking around. When she says hurt full things I laugh it off like its nothing. I just want to be her friend but she won't even alow me to get as close as we were before our relationship.