John S

I have had suffered three life trauma. First i was just six years old when my father left us which from that age up to now i could not comprehend any reason why. My second trauma happened when he disowned me, after three years of searching. Third is when my wife got affected by our insecurity and looses interest in our relationship. I don't expect everything to be perfect. I understand my dad may have his own issues and everybody else as well as my wife. My question is. Are this real life problems? I need help. Any suggestion anyone for a counseling or someone who can help. i don't want to repeat the cycle of insecurities to my son. please help.