baby out of state without my approval The father of my baby wasn't there for the whole pregnancy but I still invited him to the hospital when I knew they were going to induce me. Ever since then, he has been nothing but an issue. We just went to court for visitation and all of that jazz. We compromised on several issues but it was not brought up whether Brayden could go out of state with his father, until later on that evening. His father told me that there was going to be a family reunion in South Dakota and we live in Indiana. That is more than a 12 hour drive and Brayden will only be 7 months then. I do not want to allow it. If I tell him no that he cannot take him out of state, can he fight for it? What if that is his weekend to see him?