Me and the temptis had sex twice before I told my wife what was going on. I new the temtis for over a year before it happened. Me and my wife are in counseling now and everything is going good. I am telling my story to other people so they want make my mistake. Girls if you are married it is ok to have friends over somtimes, but be careful how often you invite them. If it seems like your friends and husband are to friendly they probably are nip it in the bud quick. My wife watched as me and her friend flurted, kissed and even gave each other back rubs. It all started with harmless fun but ended in lies, broken hearts and broken friendships.