My cousin and I were talking today and she said that her husband (who is also her babies father) always comes before their son. She said that in her heart, God is number one, her husband is number two, and her son is number three.

I then asked her if her house was burning and she could only save her son or her husband, who would she save and she said her husband.

I just do not agree with this. My husband and I believe that when we have children of our own that they will come first. How do you think that it should be?