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    Senior Member Mel's Avatar
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    Am I ruining my relationship already?

    I have a boyfriend of almost three months. I also have a history of pushing people away. I believe I have commitment issues.

    Is it bad if I think my relationship will last longer, the less we hang out outside of work?

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    No, If you force yourself into more commitment than you are ready for you will scare yourself away. I think it is good that you are concerned and that you are doing good easing yourself into it. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

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    the fact that you work together is difficult, but just hang out as long neither of you is feeling suffocated.

    communicate, and let yourself feel what you feel if you really what to change

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    You have to believe. Real couples will quit the job jus tto be with loved ones.

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    Kinda yeah. This is something to talk to your boyfriend about. Share your fears. Look at the good things in the relationship. Be open.

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    First of all it shouldn't be about how long the relationship lasts..but the experience you have in it. If you really liked your boyfriend you would want to spend every second with him! You might of had bad experiences in the past and if you can figure out why you have commitment issues then you might be able to solve the problem. It's sometimes hard to get past things sometimes. If you don't hang out with him then it will seem like you're not interested in him and your relationship will die...


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