Thread: Qn for the guys..in your mid 20s! If you met a woman you really like but...

...she is much older? Say you met a woman and were really attracted to her, physically, mentally and emotionally and thought she was in her early 30s. Then she tells you she is in her mid 40s, would this put you off dating her? I mean dating her seriously? Would you not be put off by the fact that she may not be able to have children? She is single with no kids (had long relationship but separated since).

Whats to stop you from having some short term fun?
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She may want that too?

Age deosnt count in some marriages because there are many reasons for marriage. Some marry for children, others marry for economy while others marry for a mere pleasure; so if you dont bother for children you can go for her.

well if you are as attracted to her as you say, then go for it. But her not being able to have kids may be a big big factor for you if you want children, and if not now you may feel differently in the future, you just have to ask yourself, what do you want out of the relationship, if you think you can be happy with her, obviously without children, age shouldn't be a factor.

It's all about the feelings really, age wouldn't really matter as long we were happy together.

no at the end of the day the possibility of love is anywhere and could be with anyone

plus and older woman is a hot prospect if your in the mood for it

Well she will always be lifetime ahead of you. She would be great to learn from, great for the short term but you are going to have to introduce her to your friends sooner or later. Not that that should matter if you have good mates, but how will she feel.

My concern is that she is now probably past safe child bearing age. This may not matter to you now, but wait till you hit your thirties.By then she will be 50 and no, bearing children at that age is just not safe.
Raising kids at any age is pretty stressful and requires a mix of youthful strength and understanding.

Dude, you have to go with what makes you happy, but try to think and plan past the next week or two.
20 years is a huge gap no matter what you try to do to plug it up...Her Attitudes, opinions and just the ravages of time will all play there part in applying pressure to your relationship.

And what of her feelings? Are you a passing diversion for her, an ego boost for the older woman? I hope not because sooner or later the truth will out and you are going to have to face both your own feelings and hers. Do not push them to one side, confront them now and set your self on the right course.

where have you been women are producing baby's at later ages there is no difference between men with older women and women with older men.

where have you been women are producing baby's at later ages there is no difference between men with older women and women with older men.