Married 20 years!
Can anyone relate to a wife that is a martyr and complains non stop? If things aren't going perfect during her day she freaks out and calls her life stressful. We have money, beautiful 6 bdrm house, 5 kids that are in school during the day and my wife is a home maker. I can't be in a room with her without her complaining / whining about something. I find myself moving from room to room to avoid her. She calls my office to complain. Aside from telling her to go to counseling (which I did and she said no) or asking her to knock off this behaviour does anyone ahve any constructive comments?

Thank!