I mean, you used to date/be married to that person, and you CHOSE to do that.

If that person has all of those bad qualities, it is also a reflection on YOU, for choosing to be with a person who has those qualities.

Furthermore, it is very unattractive to hear someone whine about how awful men/how awful women are. Then they gripe about why they can't find a decent guy/gal. Maybe they are hiding from you.


Why are these whiny types oblivious to that?