what to do when you argue to much with your boyfriend?

Kimberly · 09-30-2009, 04:12 AM

i been with this guy for a year and we argue for stupid things i guess he says that he loves me and i can tell that he does but for some reason it just seems like if we dont get along...we always argue because he is so jealouse and he thinks that i should call him when he says its time to call him..idk what to do

Jon G · 10-04-2009, 04:08 AM

Just break up. Why are you so afraid to end what is obviously a bad relationship?

Live.Love.Laugh · 10-05-2009, 04:07 AM

Get space from each other, till you both cool off. Then try talking about why you felt the way you felt without getting worked up over it,

Viktoriya · 10-07-2009, 04:04 AM

I would broke up with him. Why would you waste your nerves and energy if you just can't get along? or try to put urself in his shoes. maybe that will help

stubbed_m_toe · 10-22-2009, 04:05 AM

Well at least you recognize that he's controlling and it's causing problems. Now you need to address that with him. Sit him down and calmly discuss it with him. Ask him why he feels the way he does, and explain to him why you feel the way you do. If he gets angry or overly defensive, or turns it all back to you, it may be time to be shopping for a new boyfriend.