He complained that his ex wife wanted all his time and couldnt' do anything by herself. She moved back to his homestate and knew no one. They divorced partially because this and also because she had mental issues.

Well he tells me it seems like I want all his time. The funny part of this is that when we first started dating he was the one always coming to my house, calling me all the time and wanted me with him everywhere. We even split for a month due to this. I have more than encouraged him to go by himself and do things. I just don't expect him to do it every weekend all weekend. We live together now. I've brought this up and he says he is happy being right with me and wants to spend his time with me. Where I am confused how can he sit and say it seems like I have to be with him always when he makes the choice to do nothing but brings it up like its a problem. Like I am the one forcing him to stay home. He is the one who made it this way but its like its me to blame. Confused here