Thread: TCC and need to rant.

So my husband and me had an unexpected pregnancy last year and we were so happy but I had a miscarriage at 14 weeks. We decided after that we were gonna try and have a baby. Five months into trying I find out that my 16 year old sister is pregnant and due on the day that I lost my baby. So I'm upset that she got pregnant when I cant and that shes due on that day. I just doesnt seem fair. Its so hard for me to sit back and watch everyone go crazy over the first grandchild and talk about how excited they are. I dont know what I'm gonna do if she gives birth on that day. I just needed to get this off my chest and I know that alot of the women in here have had mc and are undersatnding so thank you.

that stinks! im so sorry for your lose!! I have had a miscarriage and it seemed like my mother and sister just didnt get it(they werent to sensitive). I don’t think she will have it on "that" day its very rare that you actually have your baby on the due date!!
my 18 year old sister in-law wasnt having her period so I took her to my obgyn to get help. they gave her ovulation medicine and she got pregnant on the first round. I mean I was trying for 9months after my miscarriage and she just got prego like that(I just wanted her to have a regular period not get prego) we are both due at the same time just that no one knows about me. I am now pregnant with my 2nd child (9weeks) and I don’t want to tell anyone (except my husband of course) because im scared of what might happen. my mother in-law is so excited for my sister in-law and I don’t get it shes 18 her boyfriend is 29 and they arent married. my mother in-law is catholic so I don’t know how shes so happy I mean how many sins is my sil committing right now!! and my mil was never that happy for my husband and me with our first(her only granddaughter out of 6 grand kids). good luck ttc and baby dust to you

Don't worry. Your time will come. I know it must be hard, but you can't blame yourself for the loss. Also, you can't blame your sister for getting pregnant --I'm sure she wouldn't mean to hurt you. Just take comfort in your husband. He is your shelter and will always be there for you, remember?