my boyfriend and i have been having really hard times, arguing and everything?

[kee]

and he's started saying he don't think he can be in this relationship any longer. but after he says that a fewhours later he tells me that he loves me and wants to be with me. we ahve been together going on six years and we have a eleven month old son together. neither one of us really wants to be apart. HELP!!!!! wht doi do to keep my relationship together

[kate]

I agree with tweetie, you definately need to get him alone and sort this out. Talk about why you both fight so much and what drives him to say the things he does. Be open and honest and if it doesn't work out, at least you can say "Well I gave it everything I had, I tried to fix it, I was honest, now it's time to move on with my life and our son"

Good Luck

[MSP]

sit down and be completely honest with him and have him do the same. i cant tell you wat to do because i dont know you to, but if you can do that you should know what to do from there. staying together because of a child is wrong... (im not saying you are. just saying)