Thread: Is it normal to not want a gf or get married because I really hate arguing and

that happens eventually? I am 29 already never had a gf never wanted because girls get mad someday and they start yelling and that scares me

All couples have disagreements, tiffs, and arguments, but not everyone yells and screams. LIfe is not the real Housewives of whatever City... I have been married for 12 years and I have had my feelings hurt a time or two.... I know that I have hurt my wife's feelings a time or two... wasted weekends, silent treatments... but we don't yell, we don't throw things... we stub toes, we learn, and we grow together.

You should never dismiss having a GF because of the fear of unhappiness... sometimes you have to try, you have to work through failed relationships to make it to the right one... but in-between the the words you should not have said, or that girl you should not have kissed, there are wonderful moments of joy, happiness, and being with someone... don't pass that up.

There are women that I am no longer with... relationships that failed... but I will never forget...
Making love on a beach in Maui
Buying my first house with my ex and making love in each room....
Cold nights
Long talks...

It truly is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all...

There are many articles on how to fight fairly without being mean. read them and terach the method to your GFs.