I'm doing a little early planning for my wedding so I can get ahead on saving. My fiancé and I are having what my mon calls an "up scale" wedding. Our reception venue is a traditional Catholic cathedral, and a very up scale hotel for the reception. My dress is a ,000.00 Pnina Tornai gown, wedding colors are red, black, and white. To add a little personal flavor and spunk to the wedding, I want the groomsmen to wear Red Converse in addition to their traditional black tuxedos with white shirts and red now ties. My mom however believes that the Red Converse will ruin the wedding & photos, so here inlies the dispute. Can you help us resolve it? What is your opinion? Will the Red Converse ruin the wedding & photos? Tell us what you think!