feels like he's takin her side..? My husband and I have just recently gotten married, we were high school sweetheart. Lately, whenever his sister talks to him, she seems to always have some to whine to him about that's about me. It just bothers me that she whines to him about me,instead of talking to me about it... it's like she's trying to tear us apart. Whenever I say something to him about it, he gets mad at me and says he's not taking sides...but whenever she says something to him about me, he's all ears and he never gets mad at her. I'm always made out to be the bad person and I have no idea what to do.