I feel so emotionally drained. He says I don't really listen to him when he talks, I say he talks to me like I am a child. I mean... it NEVER STOPS! Actually, that's not true... we only disagree once in a while BECAUSE I just ignore the crap that bothers me and move past it. When we do get into a discussion... all the crap comes up from the last discussion when we resolved nothing!
It is so frustrating. We don't scream, we don't yell, we don't throw things, or beat each other up. We just don't resolve anything. What in the heck can I do? I find myself feeling bitter and detached from him... just waiting for a straw to break the camels back.
I know... marriage counseling... we have gone but don't have the health coverage for it or money right now. Any personal words of wisdom OR a technique or book that you may have success with?
I am not looking for a divorce, not interested at all. I want to know how to work through this, to become better communicators where we BOTH are heard. He'll sit and talk no problem... it's just that we don't get anywhere!!!
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