I know that my daughter is too old not to be potty trained, but with the type of sensory issues she has, (as well as my other 2 children) they potty train late.
My other two children have not enjoyed diaper changes as well, but not to the extent that my 3 yo does. She will scream, force her legs together & it's heart breaking to have to force her to let me change her diaper. I know alot of people will suggest that she may have been abused. She has not. She's home with me all day, hasn't stayed overnight at anyone's house ever, never has been to daycare.
Because she has sensory issues, I know a normal diaper change may feel like the most painful thing to her, I just don't know what to do.

Any advice?