Emma

Me and my boyfriend have been together over 3 years and I love him unconditionally, more than anything and I was sure that he felt the same way but im at a loss at what to do at the moment cause we just argue about anything, i feel i try my hardest in the relationship and whenever we argue or are close to splitting i fight for us and he doesnt ever seem to make the effort to. The last year or so he has seemed like a different person. he says he loves me and cares for me but hes not the kind considerate loving person he was. He doesnt show much emotion anymore he gets angry at me,which he says is my fault cause i make him angry when we argue, i guess thats fair enough im the same its just he used to be so calm and all i want him to do is to take my hand when im upset and look at me and tell me he loves me. But he wont. its like i dont know him anymore. I always say i cant cope anymore and im leaving him but at the end of it all i go back to him cause we both say we want a future together and we love each other. I try and talk things through with him but its like he doesnt care enough to try or listen. I guess i just feel like it was perfect and now its not. Im at uni atm and we were going to try and find a place together when i finish, but i dont think i can live with him if its like this all the time. I dont know what to do my mum says hes just a typical man but i think its more than that. I dont want to leave him i love him more than anything and he says he loves me like that too but the way he is makes me feel otherwise. What should I do here?

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me and my boyfriend have the same problem . if you find yourself fighting over dumb stuff just look him in the eyes and say, "hey , why are we arguing ??" idk if that will do it for you and your man , but it does it for me all the time .