Like tell you that you're a slob after he leaves his underwear on the floor and glass in the living room, or that you're inconsiderate of him after he didn't call you at 2 a.m. to tell you that he's okay, or that you don't "take care of him" after leaving you alone to hang out with his friends when you are sick? Or that you are bad with money after blowing a ton of money with his friends and not telling you about it? Is that projecting or just stupidity?