Thread: I'm in love. I want to have sex. Not asking for permission, mostly venting.

Look at details, please.? I've been dating him for eight months.
Been in love with him for five months.
He's amazing, and always so sweet to me.
We've fooled around (orally and manually), for two months.
He hasn't pressured me one bit. In fact, whenever I bring it up, he assures me I don't need to do that with him, he'll always stay with me if we wait.
We're both virgins.
I never thought of the whole virginity thing as a big deal, and I want to lose it to him.
I feel like I'll be with him forever, even though I know won't. Hardly anyone marries their first love.
Here's the thing: we're fourteen.
My friend lost her virginity at 14, to a guy she was dating for two months, but eight months later, they're still together and in love.
Oh, and none of my friends are pressuring me either.
Thanks for reading this looonngg post.
Oh, and I know I should use a condom and all that, and we would be using one.
I feel like I'm ready.
And, why not do it now with someone I love and care about, when I'm ready?

I believe we're both pretty mature for our age.
And, if we did wait, it'd probably be just for a few months in May when we both turn 15.
It's not because I want to be like her.
Just giving an example.
I want to because I just want to.
I want to lose it to him.

You're fourteen... you shouldn't be having sex.

Your 14?

That's all l needed to see. You are young. You are not in love.

Wait!

Don't. You might regret it

I suggest waiting at least the few months for may when you turn 15. Just because when you're older you're going to feel better about saying you lost your virginity when you were 15. (I know you don't think so now, but trust me).
You seem pretty logical. Do what you want. He seems like a good guy for not pushing you. I know you said you'd use a condom which is good, but consider getting on birth control too if you're going to be having sex regularly. And make sure he knows HOW to use the condom. (I know that seems like a no duh but plenty of guys even older than him don't know how to use it properly (how to put it on, not to store it in your wallet or to keep one long, etc)).
Have a nice day.

I Say do it because

you TRULY feel that you are ready and mature to handle this then you got to tell him that you want to do this and this is what you want

to me he sounds like a keeper a really good guy but your hormones are busting out of places so you got to tell him how you feel cause this is what you want.