i'm just venting out.?

Nikki M · 07-04-2009, 02:18 AM

me and him were so happy together. he was all i ever wanted. but then my mother had to find out about us and tell us to break up. i miss him so much. i don't know if i can stand another hand on him, besides my own. it angers me to know that now he's free to touch any girl he wants in any manner that he wants to. it brings tears to my eyes knowing that he's not mine anymore. i'm just pissed off and i don't know what i'm saying right now so it won't be making much sense. i just hate how my mother comes in between us and thinks that just because i'm 16, i don't know anything and that it will be easy to move on from him. she thinks she knows it all. but she doesn't know anything about me. i just miss him. i can go behind my mother's back and be with him, but i know that my mom will be happy me not seeing him. so why can't she make me happy for once and consider MY feelings, like i take hers into consideration. i guess i just have to let fate decide.

Bestiality is not funny · 07-05-2009, 02:19 AM

You talked about him like he was the most important thing in your life. If that's true, you wouldn't let your mom stop you from seeing him. Tell your mom you're just seeing a friend, and go see him.

But it doesn't sound like you mean what you're saying. More like you just want to be dramatic.

ozpy3 · 07-05-2009, 03:42 AM

I am sorry that your mother demands so much influence over you and your life, and that your duty seems to be to please her. I hope you can change that soon.

paula p · 07-07-2009, 02:14 AM

have you tried sittig down with her and telling her how you feel.maybe if you and this guy agree to only see each other when she is around for a while,she will be able to trust your relationship and after a while give you a little more freedom.

annalisa · 07-09-2009, 02:12 AM

if things are meant to be with your boyfriend, it will work out in the end. You are 16 and when you are a little older you'll be able to start seeing him again. As a parent of step kids, we do usually know when someone is good for one of our kids. We don't just hate everyone because they are going out with our kid. If you think carefully, there must be a reason.